Hmmm… men are trash huh?? Apparently a reasonable percentage of women agree with that statement not only that but they declare it on social media almost every day. On the other hand, I beg to differ. And here’s why, I’m surrounded by great men, or maybe one can say, I just hang with the right people 🤷🏽‍♀️. Truth is, man are not trash and just because you’ve been hurt by one and someone close to you was hurt by another, and you’ve heard that there’s numerous women out there being hurt by men does not justify that statement (men are trash). On the contrary, men are not trash ladies. Everybody has flaws, and maybe y’all tend to forget that you aren’t perfect either. There’s ladies out here wrecking families, sleeping with married men, having multiple partners, hurting men emotionally, entertaining men that are not their boyfriends or husbands. Do we have a title for them too😬? I’ve met good men, I know good men and I guess what makes those that I know good is the fact that they are TRULY God fearing. Life and relationship is always a two way thing. You want a good man, be a good woman, if he treats you like trash, leave him and don’t go around measuring the rest of them based on your experience with the other or others. Please be specific when using the statement “men are trash”. Let the world know who you are referring to, do not include all men because honestly there are some good, great honest men out there. The identity of a man is not defined by the mistakes his fellow men have done or are doing but by the choices he makes. And I know many men that have chosen to live lives worth applauding and appreciating. Do not include them in your anger driven quotes. And I think we can all agree that the statement “men are trash” is derived from the bad experiences that the women who say it had with men. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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You don’t need a new year to start over. You need a new mindset

Your boyfriend may not own a car. He may not earn a lot of money. He may not live in
a posh estate. He may not be able to shower you with gifts all the time. He may not
have a great job. But it’s enough to know you are the ONLY ONE He has at his heart.
He has a vision. He is Honest. He is very hard-working. He is humble. He keeps that
smile on your face. He talks to you every day. He actually listens to you. He always
replies your messages. He tolerates you when you’re moody. His family knows you. He
tells you your beautiful all the time. He sees you every chance he gets. He appreciates
the tiniest things you do. He is there when you need him. He respects you. He is proud
you are his…And he treats you like a queen because you are his everything and he fears
to lose you.

Why ask for what he cannot afford? He may not have it all now, but one day he will…
He may not be living his dream now, but one day he will… He pictures making a family
with you and he means it when he says that he loves you.

African Ladies, appreciate that man in your life who strives to be all you need…. He
may not be all the things you need right now but with time he will be, He will get a job,
get the money, he will buy a land and he will build a house for both of you. He won’t be
renting or staying at his parent’s crib forever. He will fulfill all his promises and he will
be a good dad to your children. Just kindly be patient if you seriously love him.

Everything will be fine between both of you. Don’t be pushed around by money and
what you wanna eat now…. I pray you don’t eat up the future of your unborn children!

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Sometimes it’s better to move on than to hold on to a person who doesn’t understand you. Sometimes your absence will teach what your presence cannot…

Hey you, Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be.

I’ll be real with you, sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You have got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay.

Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it you. And I know it’s hard when your heart has labeled that person as someone you could spend forever with, but you just have to accept that they’re not that person anymore.

And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out.

TRUST ME
It is better to be alone and be happy than to be in a miserable relationship…
Whoever sees you as an option doesn’t deserve to be a priority in your life, you call him honey but he treats you like a monkey, He is your everything but you are nothing to him, you are doing everything to make it work, but he keeps thinking you are desperate and turns all your efforts to weakness…

Never keep awake thinking
about someone who is
deeply sleeping with
someone else.

Never stay a minute
thinking about someone who cant spend a
second
thinking about you.

Leave that person who
takes your love for granted
and doesnt love you back
the way you do,
Love should be balanced
not based one side.

Its better to be single than
being in an ugly
relationship that will make
you cry forever.
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Don’t celebrate titles, celebrate relevance and worth. Your value is not in your title. Your value is in your worth.

Never try to buy anyone’s love 💕 There are wicked people that will prey on you. The person God has for you will love you for you, not the things you buy them.

Sometime people keep treating us the same way because we are not moving away from them. You keep healing and hurting all the time from the same person. There come a time when you pack up your belongings and go. Save your heart from experiencing pain. Save your eyes from crying tears of sadness. Save your mind from thinking about the impossible made possible elsewhere. If the stove burned you for a while, don’t come back and touch it over again, it will still burn you. We need to get to a point of making people realize our lives can go on with or without them. We can still be unconditionally loved somewhere and we don’t need their approval for that. Your life matters and love is not pain.

Don’t spend much time trying to prove people wrong neglecting the action that will make them believe through results. Your life goes beyond your words and daily debates. Work and people will be convinced.

Feeling of change and growth is uncomfortable and still amazing at the same time.

When you’re single, people ask about a boyfriend or girlfriend. When you have a fiancé, they ask about a wedding. When you get married, they ask when will you have children? When you have one, they ask when is the little brother or sister coming? When you have another one they ask, why are you having all these children? When you get divorced, they ask why? If you don’t move on, they tell you you should. If you have moved on, they ask why so quickly? People will never stop asking, talking and telling you what you should do. So if you’re proud of who you are and you don’t care what people think about you and your life, copy and paste this on your wall with a picture of yourself because it’s your life and you get to decide how to live it.