Here’s the truth, ladies. Being pretty doesn’t keep a man. Being honest doesn’t keep a man. Being loyal doesn’t keep a man. Treating a man good doesn’t keep a man. Being there for a man doesn’t keep a man. Caring about a man doesn’t keep a man. Making an effort doesn’t keep a man. Paying attention to a man doesn’t keep a man. Spending time with a man doesn’t keep a man. You could have the best intentions, you could have the most sincere feelings, and you could be a good woman and you still wouldn’t be able to keep a man because the only way to keep a man is if that man wants to be kept by you. You can’t force a man to be with you. You can’t beg a man to stay with you. You can’t love a man into loving you. With a man, you could tell he wants to be kept when the relationship gets hard and he does everything to fight for you because a man only fights for a girl he wants to belong to so if he isn’t fighting for you when things get hard, then that means he doesn’t want to be kept by you anymore. The moral of this? Don’t hold on to a man who doesn’t want to be kept by you. No, you’re not giving up on him. It’s him who gave up on you, and it’s you who shouldn’t waste any more of your time than you already have. Know when it’s time to let go, know when it’s time to walk away, and know when it’s time for him to be unkept. 😔

When someone treats you like you’re just one of many options, help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation. Sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do. Because sometimes you can mean almost nothing to someone who means so much to you. It’s not pride – it’s self-respect. Don’t expect to see positive changes in your life if you surround yourself with negative people. Don’t give part-time people a full-time position in your life. Know your value and what you have to offer..

Dear Ladies… This is from the bottom of my heart, i know it will hurt some and encourage many but is the truth you need to hear. A woman that walks publicly half naked is not attracting good man for marriage but obvious thirst men for sex and then they will ofcourse use you and dump you because they were only attracted by your thighs and your nakedness. Let a man he attracted by your heart please. My sisters be very careful, nowadays some men use women and treat them like cigarettes. They only look for you when they want to satisfy themselves but later they step on you as a rubbish. Stop showing off your body too much, walking naked in public only showing how cheap you are, show your good characters with your attitudes but not with your body. Please, cover yourself very well, real men will only get attracted by your heart but not your outside beauty. Remember that, all precious stones like diamonds, silver and gold are found deep under ground, so be a precious woman, don’t be a cheap accessable material, be hard to get. Be a woman with dignity, respect yourself, make your good man feel proud, your parents raised you up well for you not to make them feel ashamed. May God bless you all my good sisters

Dr WITTY FAUSTINIA K LALA appreciation speech for her graduation ( medical graduate)

Thanks everyone who believed in me , family , freinds thanks for celebrating my success. For believe in me , that I can , having optimistic attitudes toward all my endeavors . Please accept my heartfelt thanks for the best gift you could ever have given me: a wonderful education. Distinguish yourself with character and with difference. Whatever you do , do it with excellence ! Success is waiting for those who are willing to try ! Try it ! Pray it ! Visualize it and live it. As you celebrated me , your celebration is knocking at your door too. I love you very much . God bless you all. Nothing is impossible , all is possible. Your limitation—it’s only your imagination.Push yourself, because no one else is going to do it for you.
Sometimes later becomes never , don’t give up.
Great things never come from comfort zones.
Dream it , go through the process , live the dream.Success doesn’t just find you , it’s a go getta ! The harder you work for something, the greater you’ll feel when you achieve it.
Dream bigger. I thank you 😘❤️