Learn to ignore and overlook many things if you truly want happiness in life because the easiest way to a miserable life is to think that everybody is talking about you.

Never allow anyone to steal your joy from you.

What people say behind your back is none of your business as long as you are true to yourself. Never worry yourself about that.

Sometimes minding your own business does not keep people out of your business.

No matter your situation in life people will always talk. You can never stop people from talking about you, what you can do is to stop giving them what to talk about.

There is a time limit for every rumor in life. Never allow freelance broadcasters put your life on hold. Do what makes you happy. Anyone who cannot feel your pain, has no right to judge you in life. Seventy percent of those who talk bad about you behind your back, wish to be like you.

When people can’t be like you they try to bring you down and condemn what you have. Those without money will sarcastically say money is not everything in life. (Is poverty anything?)

Never allow anyone to put you in a position of depression and self pity in life. Those whose life has no joy will always find every means to remove happiness from other people’s life.

If there is the GRACE of GOD in your life, then enemies are inevitable. If no one has ever gossiped or talked bad about you, it means nothing good has ever happened to you.

Never feel bad when old friends become new enemies. They are just tired of pretending to be friends.

Never allow the opinions of people who didn’t see your tears stop your laughter in life. 😬You don’t owe anybody an explanation to be happy.

Never see yourself through the eyes of those who don’t value you.
To be beautiful means to be yourself. To stand out is to be outstanding. You do not need to be accepted by others. You just need to accept yourself.

Never beg anyone to accept you for who you are. Anything you acquire through begging will require begging to maintain or retain.

Be humble but selective. Being selective doesn’t mean you are arrogant or proud. It simply means you know your worth. If you are conscious of your personality avoid too much familiarity.

Sometimes when you treat people too much like celebrities, they end up treating you like an ordinary person. You are equally important.

Never downgrade yourself while trying to upgrade anybody in life. Anyone who sees you like an option doesn’t deserve to be a priority in your life.

The dream of a fool is for everybody to become a bloody fool like himself. Avoid negative people if you have a dream. Those without mission will say your vision is just an illusion.

Negative minds will never give you a positive life. Anyone who is always reminding you about what is wrong with you has a personal problem which he/she wants to take out on you.

Most people spend half of their entire life analysing the faults in other people’s life, when their own lives need urgent repairs.

Never worry yourself about enemies and friends, because everybody in your life will eventually fall into one of the two categories.

Some will hate you and some will love you. Loving you or hating you are both in your favour. When people love you, you live peacefully and happily in their hearts, and when people hate you, you become the landlord in their head by living painfully in their brain everyday and giving them sleepless nights.

Dear women ! Sometimes we just have to advice u as brothers ! No man kept by big butts , beautiful face , nice body , all These are just sexual attractions ! They attach nothing to a brain of a man, to bring up true love ! When you are seriously need to settle ! Start work on how to respect a man ! How to help a Man in his work ! Call him sometimes just to ask how he is doing ! Cook for him sometimes ! Little control ! Show your dreams with little action ! Automatic a man is a bulldozer he can open the way till marriage ! But if this nonsense of dinners , give me 200, always consider your needs ! My sister we can use u and go to the women that mean permanent life because you are also not serious !!

Don’t be too independent. Don’t Think that you’re where you’re now on your own. Don’t think You have made it yourself. Don’t think You don’t need anything or anyone.
Look and think about it.

You were born by 2 parents. God created Adam . Adam needed Eve . Have you ever thought why ?

We are all need each other. Pray for each other. You’re where you’re now because somebody prayed for you. Someone connected you to someone to get that job , to get that handsome or beautiful hubby/wifey , boyfriend/girlfriend , fiance/fiancee.

An employer need employees , a banker need clients or customers , a church need congregants , school need pupils or learners , university need students , a photographer need models , a TV / Radio presenters need news from people , Facebook need users , Motivational speakers need audiences and etc the list continues

Someone introduced to that destiny helper. Someone introduced you to that church , where you get your deliverance , counselling and growing spiritual now.

Somebody send you that text message that made up your mind to appreciate where you’re now , be hopefully for tomorrow. Someone preached to you , someone encouraged to start a business, to start write that book , to go to another country , to start a new job , to look for better opportunities , to connect with better people who will improve you.

Listen , people who are celebraties today someone introduced them to someone .
Someone introduced them to be best university , best music producer, best book seller , best comedian, best footballer, best movie star, best school , best Divine connector and, Gatekeeper.

It’s actually someone who put a smile on your face , who check you up on you daily , visited you when you were sick , organized your party/ event/ workshop/ conference/ dinner. And someone who introduced you to Facebook/ Instagram/ Twitter/ WhatsApp etc to all social networking.

It’s another person who celebrated your achievements ,who came to rescue you and mentor you . Someone was there for you when you need a person to talk to , someone who can listen and understand you.

Somebody gave birth to you , somebody brought you up , somebody looked after you, somebody cooked for you , somebody taught you .

Someone somewhere told you about my page or send you an invitation to like or follow it now you’re getting inspired, encouraged and now you’re sharing the message with other people. Do you know why ? Because you discovered we all need each other to survive.

However, Someone else will Nurse , nurture you , care for you , will bury you , will mourn you , someone will carry your coffin , someone will drive/ transport you to go to your destination , it’s someone will put you in your grave , and look after your tomb.

So , we all need each other to survive in life. You can not reach your destiny without the help of others. You can’t make it on your own.
Ecclesiastes 4:9 Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.

Each one of us is responsible for the whole of humankind. We need to think of each other really as brothers and sisters and to be concerned for each other’s welfare. Rather than working solely to acquire wealth, we need to do something meaningful, something directed seriously towards the welfare of humanity as a whole.

~ Faussy Donna Lala ( DR WITTY)

Dear Students….📚📒📖🎓

Please, let’s study harder and hardest. Nowadays its only EDUCATION that can bail you out, nothing else. Never forget where you came from and make sure you chose your friends wisely.

There will be challenges, you will encounter alot of obstacles but that should never make you surrender, let’s keep pushing. Failing doesn’t mean you ‘re stupid that just tells you to work extra harder.

You should quit all those stories of too much enjoyments, parties and bunch of friends. Avoid wasting your precious time with nonsense. Open your eyes wider, the world have changed drastically, everything requires knowledge and skills, so fully equip yourself.

Make sure you are in a good relationship with your books than with anybody else. Ask God for Wisdom and Strength throughout your study. Have good plans for yourself and make good targets for yourself.

You must make sure your future is pregnant, make sure you comes out victorious. I will be happy to see all of you in graduation gowns one day. Remain, humble, positive, dedicated then i am sure God will not dissapoint you. Stay blessed…👏👏👏

Before you go all the way inside of her, before you finish saying you love her. Before you buy her the ring, Before you stretch your arms out and touch her. Before you call her on the phone,
before you tell her your looking for a wife. Before you fill her head up with dreams, before you become the man in her life. Before you decide to approach her, before you decide to
kiss her. Before you go meet her
mother, before you tell her you miss her. Before you make her emotional, before you Get her excited. Before you consume her mind, before she admits
she likes it…If your not right then leave her, before she thinks you need her.
Before she feels its real, that woman is a keeper!! For a man who wants a blessing, for a man who wants a queen. Not a man thats full of game,
or a man who wants to scheme. So before you say i do, let your intentions be to love her. Dont marry her for her assets, marry her because you love
her. Don’t marry because she’s
pregnant, just be a father to that child. Because if you marry her just because she’s pregnant, the arguments are
gonna affect that child. So before you make a promise, and before her feelings start. Know that she is a real woman of God, and all I’m asking is please – Don’t break that womans
heart